People with low self-esteem don’t trust their judgment, don’t trust their gut instincts, and are afraid of being wrong.As a result, they either live their lives in a constant state of anxiety, or they look to others to guide them along the right path.
The fact is, you can only let in as much love from the outside as you feel on the inside.
If you don’t feel good about yourself, you will never truly believe that someone else can love you and you will constantly be on the lookout for the other shoe to drop, for the guy you care about to leave, thus validating the fact that you are unworthy of love.
Poor self-worth is what traps us in bad relationships, what sabotages new relationships, and what causes us to feel so devastated and broken when a relationship ends.
Confident people don’t abandon parts of themselves in order to have a relationship.
They bring their fully formed self into the relationship and if the guy wants something else, or something more, they leave.
Confident women don’t take it personally when a guy doesn’t want a romantic relationship.