Pop quiz, hot-shot: What does a man who becomes a woman's "friend" do differently with her than another woman would? Moral: If you want a woman to see you as a sexual man, rather than basically as an ugly woman, then you must act differently than another woman would.This is true for woman you are just meeting, as well as for women who have known you for a while and already think of you as a "friend." Bottom line: you must flirt with her, weird as it may feel to you the first time you do it. So often a man who ends up a woman's "friend" falls into the trap of wanting the woman to feel comfortable, above all else.
You are unlikely to turn these women into lovers, but by trying, at least you'll get them out of your life, and clear some psychic space for women who do want to be sexual with you.
If you want to turn a friend into a lover, it is crucial beyond words that she not be your one-and-only-hope for sex.
You MUST be pursuing other women, flirting with other women, romancing other women, and being sexual with other women.
So what can you do to get "just a friend" to become your lover?
Let's look at the basic primer on friends-to-lovers, Louis and Copeland style.
2) Women’s Sexual Fluidity While men often identify as either straight or gay, women are less black and white when it comes to their sexuality.