While women may get an ego boost when they receive 30-100 messages in any given week, nobody really wishes to have that much admin to sift through.
And when 80% of the messages are either, you can’t really blame them for not responding to most messages—even if you personalize your mails.
You follow their advice, only to realize that not only are people not responding to your messages, they’re not even opening them.
What is the point crafting a well-thought out message if it doesn’t get opened, or worse, seen?
Now a braniac over at Slate has taken on a pertinent dating question from a reader: Why is it that pretty women often end up with unattractive men?According to research, women who send messages to men are twice as likely to receive a response compared to men who start conversations.We men love to complain about how women have extraordinarily high standards when looking for a mate—however, we fail to look a little bit deeper at why this is the case.The fact of the matter is that women receive far too much “unwanted” attention.While it does require less effort for women to get responses from the opposite sex, they’re not really in the best position, as they have to dig through a lot of junk before they find any substance.Headlines are just as important as the content in your message.