It wasn't like I forbade him—he said he just wasn't into that stuff.When he got home, I made a crack about the lap dance and could tell by the look on his face that he'd had one. He didn't understand why I was so angry, since it was normal' bachelor-party behavior.
He also felt justified because she and I weren't close friends!But in the end, I felt too guilty to continue the relationship,' and stopped returning his calls.""When I was a senior in college, I had a boyfriend of three years, but sometimes my friend Nate would come over and spend the night…in my bed.We never hooked up or even really touched; we just talked and fell asleep next to each other.My general rule is that if it's something you would absolutely not be comfortable with your significant other knowing, you've crossed some sort of line.""I'd been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half when I flew to L. Along the way, we picked up a few guys, who later bought us tons of drinks.As we got more and more drunk, the girls got flirtier with each other, and the guys were egging us on.That said, I think she was probably right to keep it to herself.